[OpenID] On the banning of Santosh

Dave Kearns dkearns at gmail.com
Sun Nov 29 20:16:48 UTC 2009


From: John Kemp
>
> When people shout or are rude, it is often because they feel that
> their point (which they might have tried to make repeatedly) is not
> being heard. Sometimes the point is not heard because it is not
> explained in terms that the listener(s) can sufficiently understand.
> And sometimes the point is not heard because the listener is not
> listening hard enough.
>

And sometimes the shouter is simply being ignored as being the more polite
choice - rather than dumping on them for either: a) re-hashing a settled
issue; b) bringing up a point that makes no sense in the given context; or
c) doing an apples v. cats comparison. Sometimes silence IS the best choice.

-dave



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